Playing it cool can sometimes be difficult when you find a girl that you really like. These moments at the beginning of a relationship are the best. She's beautiful and funny and you could talk to her forever. You connect on so many levels and she's all you think about. You really want things to work out but you're freaked out that you're going to mess things up. You don't want to say the wrong things but you want to be sure that the relationship moves along. How do you walk that line that borders showing interest without going overboard? How can you let her know that you're really interested in her without blowing it?
First, you need to relax. She knows that you like her and if she's not absolutely positive about where you stand then this is actually a good thing. Driving her a little crazy should be part of your whole plan. Women will give up on or reject a guy that they feel is too into them. While most women will tell you that they refuse to chase a guy, making sure that you don't appear over eager and allowing her to take a few steps towards you is important. After all, none of us appreciates things that are too easy to obtain and wearing your heart on your sleeve will just make you appear needy and being needy is a big turn off for all women.
Be yourself and everything is going to turn out fine. While many guys spend a lot of time trying to prove their worthiness to an attractive woman, it take a strong man to simply be himself. Instead of trying to show her how cool you are or how worthy you are of her attention, let her impress you. Get to know her by asking the right questions. Lead the conversation in the direction of her hopes and dreams. It shouldn't take too long to uncover who she really is and what she wants her life to be like. Women love to talk about themselves and as a bonus, you will be showing that you really are attracted to her because of who she is. As a result, the rest of the fun parts of the relationship will follow without you having to worry. When a woman feels that you truly care about her and she feels safe with you, the sky is the limit.
Acting nervous or worrying about things can ruin even the best laid plans. Avoid being nervous at all cost. It sends a message to a woman that you are weak or that something is wrong. She won't feel safe with you. When you feel inadequate or nervous around her, take a few moments to gather your thoughts. Escape to the bathroom after excusing yourself. Duck out and pretend that you're trying to find something in your car or otherwise find five minutes alone to pull yourself together. Remind yourself that she already likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be spending time with you. Don't blow it now after you have already overcome two of the three hurdles in making her want you completely. You have attracted her and created a strong bond with her. This is the time for you to really shine and not your opportunity to fall apart. You are the man.
When you find a girl that you really like, getting into a relationship with her is a lot easier than you think. Try not to complicate this and enjoy the dance. This is the truly fun part of the relationship and it's not the destination that you should be focusing on. It's the journey that will make having her in your life so enjoyable for both of you.
First, you need to relax. She knows that you like her and if she's not absolutely positive about where you stand then this is actually a good thing. Driving her a little crazy should be part of your whole plan. Women will give up on or reject a guy that they feel is too into them. While most women will tell you that they refuse to chase a guy, making sure that you don't appear over eager and allowing her to take a few steps towards you is important. After all, none of us appreciates things that are too easy to obtain and wearing your heart on your sleeve will just make you appear needy and being needy is a big turn off for all women.
Be yourself and everything is going to turn out fine. While many guys spend a lot of time trying to prove their worthiness to an attractive woman, it take a strong man to simply be himself. Instead of trying to show her how cool you are or how worthy you are of her attention, let her impress you. Get to know her by asking the right questions. Lead the conversation in the direction of her hopes and dreams. It shouldn't take too long to uncover who she really is and what she wants her life to be like. Women love to talk about themselves and as a bonus, you will be showing that you really are attracted to her because of who she is. As a result, the rest of the fun parts of the relationship will follow without you having to worry. When a woman feels that you truly care about her and she feels safe with you, the sky is the limit.
Acting nervous or worrying about things can ruin even the best laid plans. Avoid being nervous at all cost. It sends a message to a woman that you are weak or that something is wrong. She won't feel safe with you. When you feel inadequate or nervous around her, take a few moments to gather your thoughts. Escape to the bathroom after excusing yourself. Duck out and pretend that you're trying to find something in your car or otherwise find five minutes alone to pull yourself together. Remind yourself that she already likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't be spending time with you. Don't blow it now after you have already overcome two of the three hurdles in making her want you completely. You have attracted her and created a strong bond with her. This is the time for you to really shine and not your opportunity to fall apart. You are the man.
When you find a girl that you really like, getting into a relationship with her is a lot easier than you think. Try not to complicate this and enjoy the dance. This is the truly fun part of the relationship and it's not the destination that you should be focusing on. It's the journey that will make having her in your life so enjoyable for both of you.
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