Making the decision to get your ex back can be a complicated one. Family and friends might want to advise you to move on and find someone new. Counselors might even give you the same advise. Of course, your heart is telling you to do something completely different.
Even though many people around you are telling you to move on, this is still your life and your decision. While you might love your family and friends and respect their opinion, you don't have to do what they suggest. You can listen to them and thank them for the advice but it's almost impossible to ignore your own heart. Your heart rules you and it is where your dreams and desires are born. Your heart is the origin of your future and your heart is telling you that you still love your ex.
You don't want to offend the people around you and you worry that they will become upset with you. They all care about you very much. They don't want you to be upset and hurt anymore. It could be that they see things only from one perspective and that is that your ex is causing you pain. They want you to be happy again and often finding someone else to date or spend time with is a temporary solution to a deeper problem which is that you are still in love with your ex.
Keep in mind that when you finally do make that decision to try to get back together with your ex you might want to keep it to yourself. If you're not going to get support from your friends or family then it's often better to keep your decision to yourself. It's sometimes better to have no support than to have people around you reminding you of the pain that you went through and all the reasons why your ex wasn't the right one for you.
Covet that dream of being reunited with your ex. Keep it safe from those that might want to destroy it. Cherish it like a fragile gift. Know in the depths of your soul that it can come true and that it is not impossible. Everything is possible in this world and having the one person who loved you so passionately fall in love with you again isn't out of the realm of possibility. There are people who are much worse off than you who were able to reunite with their soul mates. You probably have evidence of this in your own life. Have you seen people with big relationship problems get back together when everyone said that it wouldn't happen? Remember that and know in your heart that this is possible.
Treat yourself each and every day by spending some time before you go to sleep thinking about your dream. Close your eyes and smile. Think about how it will feel when your ex kisses you for the first time. How will it feel when they wrap their arms around you and tell you that they have missed you? Are you smiling now? Dream of spending a holiday together or going on a vacation together. Let your dreams be big dreams and allow your mind to wander. Be sure that all of these things and more will happen in your life and banish all doubts during this time.
Dreams are the coming attractions of your life. You decide what your dreams will be and not your friends or family or counselor. If being in love with that one particular person that you connect with is important to you then who can tell you that this is wrong? You deserve to be happy in life and that happiness includes being in the relationship that you dream of exactly the way that you want. You are the most important person in your life and you should strive to be happy and content with the person that is best suited for you. Dream about getting your ex back and move forward in making that dream come true.
Even though many people around you are telling you to move on, this is still your life and your decision. While you might love your family and friends and respect their opinion, you don't have to do what they suggest. You can listen to them and thank them for the advice but it's almost impossible to ignore your own heart. Your heart rules you and it is where your dreams and desires are born. Your heart is the origin of your future and your heart is telling you that you still love your ex.
You don't want to offend the people around you and you worry that they will become upset with you. They all care about you very much. They don't want you to be upset and hurt anymore. It could be that they see things only from one perspective and that is that your ex is causing you pain. They want you to be happy again and often finding someone else to date or spend time with is a temporary solution to a deeper problem which is that you are still in love with your ex.
Keep in mind that when you finally do make that decision to try to get back together with your ex you might want to keep it to yourself. If you're not going to get support from your friends or family then it's often better to keep your decision to yourself. It's sometimes better to have no support than to have people around you reminding you of the pain that you went through and all the reasons why your ex wasn't the right one for you.
Covet that dream of being reunited with your ex. Keep it safe from those that might want to destroy it. Cherish it like a fragile gift. Know in the depths of your soul that it can come true and that it is not impossible. Everything is possible in this world and having the one person who loved you so passionately fall in love with you again isn't out of the realm of possibility. There are people who are much worse off than you who were able to reunite with their soul mates. You probably have evidence of this in your own life. Have you seen people with big relationship problems get back together when everyone said that it wouldn't happen? Remember that and know in your heart that this is possible.
Treat yourself each and every day by spending some time before you go to sleep thinking about your dream. Close your eyes and smile. Think about how it will feel when your ex kisses you for the first time. How will it feel when they wrap their arms around you and tell you that they have missed you? Are you smiling now? Dream of spending a holiday together or going on a vacation together. Let your dreams be big dreams and allow your mind to wander. Be sure that all of these things and more will happen in your life and banish all doubts during this time.
Dreams are the coming attractions of your life. You decide what your dreams will be and not your friends or family or counselor. If being in love with that one particular person that you connect with is important to you then who can tell you that this is wrong? You deserve to be happy in life and that happiness includes being in the relationship that you dream of exactly the way that you want. You are the most important person in your life and you should strive to be happy and content with the person that is best suited for you. Dream about getting your ex back and move forward in making that dream come true.
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